There is no right or wrong way with coping with the loss of a baby, or the loss of anyone for that matter. The grief that everyone feels is different for each individual, what works for one person may certainly not work for another person.

I am no expert in coping, because to be frank I am not sure I am coping. I function by getting out of bed each day and setting my priority to ensuring B Lloyd gets safely to school, on time, in a clean uniform, having eaten breakfast, with her book bag. If that is all I achieve that day then its a good day.

Here I want to record two ways that I am finding comfort and distraction from my everyday grief in the hope that it might inspire someone else and so that I can come back and look at my journey, because one day I hope to not feel like this every minute of the day.